I found in additional css
.main-navigation .inside-navigation .menu .slideout-toggle, button.menu-toggle, .slideout-overlay {
display: none !important;
}
Removing that solved it but the hamburger is now there also for the slide out menu (which I was just messing with but did not show before) when the window is full size which I dont need. – or that what a slideout menu function is supposed to be?
I dont know what I would have done that would have added that (or anything) to the additional CSS.